Why Girlfriend Doesn’t Accept My Oral Sex?

Welcome to HealthEros. Today, let’s start our sexual talk with a question:

Why doesn’t my girlfriend accept my oral sex? I have always wanted to try it, but she never agrees. I just want her to enjoy the pleasure of oral sex.

In fact, there are several reasons why girls do not accept oral sex:

Many girls have very conservative sexual concepts and can only accept some traditional positions when having sex. They can’t even accept the woman-on-top sex position, let alone exposing their private parts to their partners for oral sex.

There are some girls who do not accept oral sex because they are guided by the wrong ideas on the Internet. They think that their vagina is not beautiful enough. They also worry about the odor there, and are afraid that their sexual partners will dislike it.

If this is the case, you need to slowly guide her to change her mindset, give her enough sense of security, and let her trust you enough so that she can let go of her anxiety and enjoy your oral sex.

Another reason is that the boy’s oral sex skill is not good enough, and the girl does not feel the pleasure of oral sex at all. So she does not want to experience it again.

When giving oral sex, be gentle and give her a feeling of being cared for. Girls are more emotional, and when she feels your gentle love, even if your oral sex skills are not very good, she can still have a very good experience.