In adult videos, performers often use the ekiben position during sex. However, it’s rarely practiced by couples in real life. The reason is straightforward: this position demands significantly more physical effort from men.
In reality, as long as you understand the key aspects of the position and experiment with a few variations of the ekiben sex positions, even guys with less upper body strength can give it a try.
So, what’s the key to mastering the ekiben sex position? It’s simple: the girl should keep her upper body as close to the guy as possible and wrap her arms tightly around his neck.
Here are some common ekiben sex positions below.
1. The guy places his arms under the girl’s knees, holding onto her thighs, hips, or waist with both hands.
As shown in the picture above, the guy leans back slightly while the girl wraps her arms around his neck, resting her forearms on his shoulders. The guy uses the strength of his biceps to lift her up and down, creating the penetrations. At the same time, the girl can use her arms to help support and push herself upward, working together with him for smoother movement.
This position demands considerable arm strength from the guy, and the girl also needs to use her arms to assist, helping to lighten his load and make the penetration easier.
If the boy wants to use the strength of his waist and abdomen to thrust back and forth, he can have the girl lean back slightly, as shown in the picture above. This creates a suitable gap between their bodies, giving his waist more space to move freely during penetrations.
At this point, the boy should hold the girl’s waist with both hands. As he thrusts forward, he can gently pull her toward him, and when pulling back, use his arms to softly push her away. By coordinating the strength of his arms and waist, the movement will feel smoother, more synchronized, and less physically tiring.
The ekiben sex position is better suited for boys with longer penises. If the penis is shorter, it may easily slip out during thrusting. For safety and smoother movement, even with a longer penis, it’s important to keep at least a quarter of it inside the vagina throughout the thrusting process.
2. The girl wraps her legs around the boy’s waist, and the boy holds her waist with both hands, or pushes her hips
In this position, the boy primarily uses a slight squatting motion, moving up and down with his legs. This allows the girl’s body to move in sync, facilitating the penetration of the penis into her vagina.
3. Girl’s back against the wall
In this position, the boy’s arms require less effort, but the thrusting tends to be more subtle. The benefits are clear: with their bodies closely pressed together, the penis stays securely inside the vagina, while the male pubic bone can stimulate the girl’s clitoris, enhancing her pleasure.
If you want to increase speed and intensity of penetrations, you can have the girl lean against the wall while fucking her. However, if the wall is rough, it’s a good idea for her to wear a top beforehand to prevent any scratches on her back.
The wall provides support, helping to distribute some of the boy’s weight, which allows for a greater range and strength in the fucking penetrations.
4. Reverse Ekiben Sex – Anal
The ekiben sex position can also be used for anal sex, but in this case, the reverse ekiben sex position is recommended. As shown above, lift the girl’s legs with your arms to expose her anus, allowing for easier penetration.
Remember three things during anal sex: cleaning, anal dilation, and lubrication, otherwise girls will not experience the pleasure of anal sex.
5. Reverse Ekiben Sex – Caressing Clitoris
The picture above demonstrates the reverse ekiben sex position. In this position, the penis stimulates the G-spot on the front wall of her vagina. The girl can wrap one arm around the boy’s neck while using her other hand to stimulate and caress her clitoris, allowing herself to enjoy the combined pleasure of both the G-spot and clitoral stimulation simultaneously.
6. Ekiben Sex Position – Female arms supporting furniture
If the boy wants to conserve more energy, the girl can support her body with her arms behind her on the table. This allows the boy to focus more on fucking her while also reducing the girl’s body from shaking back and forth.
These are some common ekiben positions in sex. If you haven’t tried them before, consider exploring these romantic and intimate sex styles with your partner.
