When having sex, it is common to encounter situations where girls shout “NO”. At this time, some men with less sexual experience will feel very confused. How can they judge whether she really wants to stop sex or is just shy?
First, you can judge from her tone. If her tone is relaxed, and it sounds like she is acting coquettish, and her body does not resist, you can continue to have sex.
However, if her tone is serious, her expression looks uncomfortable or painful, and her body language shows resistance, it usually means that she is really feeling uncomfortable. You should stop having sex immediately to avoid causing harm to her body.
Don’t be fooled by the plots in pornographic movies. Sometimes she really feel pain and can’t continue having sex. If the man not only does not stop at this time, but continues to penetrate violently, it will not only cause secondary harm to the girl, but also make her resist having sex in the future.
It is recommended that everyone agree on a “safe word” before having sex. Although safe words were initially used in small circles of certain sexual fetishes, they are now widely used in the sexual lives of many couples. Once one party feels uncomfortable during sex, they should stop immediately when the safe word is said.
The premise of sex is respect and care. Your own happiness is important, but you also have to take care of your sexual partner’s feelings. Only when both people are happy, can you have a healthy and harmonious sex life.
