Why does my girlfriend always like me to slap her butt during sex? Especially when she is about to orgasm, she insists on me slapping her butt, which feels a bit weird.
It is normal to spank a woman’s butt during sex. For women who like to be spanked, spanking can quickly arouse their sexual desire and make the sexual pleasure during sex more intense.
First of all, when women’s butts are spanked, hormones such as dopamine are secreted to relieve pain. These hormones can make them feel excited and can be transformed into sexual pleasure under certain circumstances.
Secondly, because the buttocks are private parts, the woman being spanked cannot see their partner’s movements and does not know how hard he is spanking, which can easily cause fear and shame in the heart. When the man’s palm slaps down, the private parts will unconsciously clamp together at the moment of contact, which can easily cause sexual arousal.
So when having sex, how can you slap a woman’s butt to make her more passionate?
No one likes to be spanked hard at the beginning. Caress her gently first to let her relax, and then decide the amount of force you want to apply based on the intensity of the sex.
When patting, it is best to start with the fullest part of the buttocks. Don’t slap the coccyx and waist to avoid accidents.
If both of you are willing to accept this, you can also use some small rackets, whips and other props to add some interest to sex and make her more excited.
However, for safety reasons, we recommend that you set a safe word before spanking. If your wife feels uncomfortable when being spanked, she can say the safe word to avoid accidents. It is good to have some fun, but safety and comfort are still the first priority during sex.
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