How To Play Fingering To Give Her Sexual Pleasure or Orgasm?

My girlfriend wants to try fingering with me, but I have never done it before. What should I know when fingering a girl? How can I make her orgasm through the fingering sexuality?

Many couples are busy unlocking various advanced ways when having sex, but ignore an entry-level operation, which is fingering.

Some men may think that compared with the penis, fingers are short and thin, can they really make her orgasm?

Although fingers are not thick or long enough, they are flexible and can more easily stimulate a woman’s sensitive points. Moreover, the nerve endings of a girl’s vagina are almost all concentrated in the 1/3 part at the entrance. So, if you master the fingering skills, using your fingers to make your girlfriend orgasm is a matter of minutes.

Today I will lead you back to basics. Let’s put aside all the fancy sex techniques, and share with you how to play the traditional sexual skill – fingering.

Clean Hands and Trim Nails

The vagina is very delicate. Before fingering, wash your hands first, trim your nails short and keep the edges smooth. This will not only prevent bacteria from infecting her private parts, but also let her feel your care, which will make the sexual experience better.

The biggest advantage of fingers is the flexibility, so they are very suitable for teasing your girlfriend during foreplay.

Foreplay and Lubrication

Don’t use your fingers to go straight to her sensitive parts right away. Before you start, you should kiss and hug her, caress the sensitive points of her body to prepare her physically and mentally.

When you feel that her sexual desire has been aroused, her vagina has secreted enough love fluid, and she is looking forward to the next step, then you can insert your fingers and start fingering.

If the vaginal secretion of love fluid is not enough, you can add some lubricant to assist. Don’t be self-righteous and use saliva for lubrication. Saliva not only fails to have a lubricating effect, but may also spread diseases and cause inflammation.

I suggest starting with one or two fingers and working your way up gradually. Don’t insert too much at the beginning to avoid scaring the person.

Suitable Position and Good Skills

You can choose a position that is comfortable for both of you. For example, the man can kneel between her legs, or you can lie sideways, as long as he has one hand that can move flexibly.

First, caress the labia and the surrounding skin. You can rub it gently or make circles. When you feel her love juice increasing, you can concentrate on stimulating the clitoris.

When the above steps are done smoothly, you can explore deeper. Since the skin of fingers is usually rough, you can use condoms and lubricants when necessary. Try to go deeper with your fingers, starting slowly and gently, and gradually increase the intensity.

After your fingers enter, don’t just pump them in and out. You can try bending your fingers upward to find the G-spot. Once you find it, increase the pressure appropriately, or rotate it left and right. Remember to be gentle so that she can experience the joy of a clitoral orgasm.

Of course, man can also use his fingers to stimulate the G-spot while using his tongue to tease her clitoris. This way she can enjoy the dual sexual pleasure of the G-spot and the clitoris, as shown below:

Just like sexual intercourse is divided into vaginal intercourse and anal intercourse, fingering can also be divided into vaginal fingering and anal fingering. Therefore, you can also finger her anus (an essential anal dilation before anal intercourse). In this process, the female’s perineum cavernous body can be stimulated, thereby increasing her sexual excitement. However, since the anus and rectum do not secrete love fluid on their own, you must use water-based lubricants, and the movements during fingering must be gentle and from shallow to deep. It is recommended to insert no more than two fingers when fingering anus:

If you want to have superb fingering skills, you not only need to learn theoretical knowledge, but more importantly, practice more with her, so that your skills can continue to improve and you can use your fingers to make her experience different orgasms.