I really want to try the Ekiben sex position with my husband, but he always refuses. He thinks that this position is too difficult. But I think it feels good to be held by my husband during sex. How can I make him willing to try the Ekiben position?
Although some sex positions are stimulating, they are not suitable for all couples. Some sex positions require male strength, such as the Ekiben position. It requires a lot of physical strength, endurance and penis hardness.
The Ekiben sex position is when the man stands and hugs the woman. She puts her arms around the man’s neck and wraps her legs around the man’s waist to have sex.
When using this position to have sex, because their private parts are close together, the woman’s clitoris can easily be rubbed during the process of penetration, which helps to achieve a clitoral orgasm.
When making love in this position, the woman’s body is held by the man and is suspended in the air. So she can feel a strong sense of masculinity, but this also requires the man to have enough arm/waist/abdominal strength to hold the woman’s body up while making love.
Moreover, this position also has requirements for the length of the penis. If the length is not enough, it can easily slip out of the vagina during sex.
It should be noted that the Ekiben sex position does not mean picking up the woman first and then penetrating, which would be more difficult.
① The man can sit on the bed first, let the woman sit on his thigh, insert the penis into her vagina, and then pick her up, which is easier and safer.
② You can also let the woman sit on a table or other surface of suitable height, and then the man will aim and insert. Finally, let her hug his neck. Then the man lifts her hips and picks her up.
However, although the Ekiben position looks exciting, it may not be suitable for you. Don’t blindly choose difficult sexual positions in pursuit of temporary novelty. Choose the sexual position that best suits you and increase your sexual satisfaction.
- Her legs should be placed on the his arm joints as much as possible (as shown above)
- Woman puts her arm around man’s neck
- Woman leans forward and try to get closer to him
If you want to save more energy, you can also imitate the following picture. Let the girl lean against the wall to have sex:
In addition, if you want to try the upgraded version of Ekiben sex position, you can also make love with the reverse ekiben position. You can stimulate the woman’s G-spot more easily with this reverse position. Just like the picture below.
Some people may think that if use the reverse ekiben position to have sex, can the penis still reach the vagina? Can it still be inserted? As long as you control the strength and angle, of course you can. The following is a clip from a Japanese adult video. Woman can grab something like the girl in the picture to help man save energy:
You can also do it like the picture below, where the girl puts one arm around the boy’s neck to raise and fix her height, so that his arm won’t be so strained:
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