When my wife and I used the “prone bone” position during sex, we always failed. Even with a pillow under her butt, it still took a lot of effort to insert my penis. And I couldn’t see the entrance to her vagina when I penetrate, so I had to try again and again until my penis soft.
Also, it was hard to decide whose legs were inside. If my legs were inside, she would have to spread her legs wide open, almost kneeling, which would end up being the same as the doggy style.
If her legs are inside, her thighs will get in the way during penetration.
I am 182 cm tall and she is 165 cm tall.
Also, my penis is big, and she feels a bit uncomfortable every time I penetrate.
The above are the problems we encountered when making love in prone bone position. Please help me out.
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I am 152 cm tall and my husband is 182 cm. Prone bone is one of our favorite sex positions.
Because the penis is not inserted completely along the natural direction of the vagina. Instead, his glans can rub my G-spot hard, then touch my anterior fornix, pushing my cervix back and up, but not violently.
This feeling is very pleasant, but it is indeed not very convenient when inserting the penis.
Based on my own experience, I have come up with the following reasons:
1. I am thin, with a flat butt and thin legs. So my butt and legs don't create any obstruction when the penis enters. (My legs are inside his legs.)
2. My uterus is slightly retroverted and my cervix is located deeper in my vagina.
3. I have a short vagina and he has a long penis, so we avoid some positions, like doggy style, and we find that the "prone bone position" is the only doggy style we can do because the penis doesn't penetrate very deeply.
4. We found the perfect mat for my hips. If the mat is too flat, it's hard to get the penis in, and if it's too high, the penis goes in too deep. Our mat is about 4 inches thick. You can also try to find a mat that's the right size and firmness.
Prone bone position seems to work well for some couples but not for others. One possible reason is that there are big anatomical differences in the outer ends of women's vaginas. For some women, the angle of the vagina is more forward, while for others, it's more backward. While it may only be a 20˚ difference, it's enough to make it difficult for him to aim during penetration, especially in the dark. If you prefer prone, try placing a thicker and firmer support under your hips. If one pillow isn't enough, use two.
Another possible reason is that if your bed is too soft, then most of your weight is on your knees, which further depresses the cushions, forcing her hips down and away from your penis. If you think this is a problem, try a firmer mattress or having sex on a harder surface.
I'd like to ask, how do you measure the size of your vagina? I also want to measure my wife's...
Measuring vaginal length is difficult because they are very flexible. But there are three ways to tell: First, I dumped a boyfriend who was very proud of his 7-inch penis and always fucked me hard with it, which hurt me a lot. So I already knew that my vagina was short. Second, my current boyfriend's penis is about 13.5 cm, and even this length is a bit long for me, especially in those deep sex positions. Third, the cervix is located near the inner end of the vagina. My fingers are short, but I can still touch the cervix with my hands.
The other information (about the position of the cervix and the tilt of the uterus) was told to me by the gynecologist. She confirmed visually that my vagina is short for an adult.
The pillow should rest just below her hipbones, not below her belly. You want to tilt her pelvis and hips upward, not lift them up.
If the bed is too soft, it will only make it more difficult to insert the penis because when you kneel next to her, she will sink. You can try to put a quilt or yoga mat on the floor to see if it works better.
You can start with the doggy style. With your legs outside hers, insert your penis and have her bring her legs together and slowly lower herself down. Make sure the penis is always in her vagina as she lowers herself down.
When I have sex with my wife, I also like the prone bone position, but the insertion angle is indeed difficult. Every time we insert it while lying on our side, and then change to the prone position.
I feel that side entry is also quite difficult, unless the penis is raised at a large angle after erection.
Every time I would first insert a finger into her vagina, then guide the penis in, and finally pull out my finger.
Buying a sex pillow can perfectly solve your problem
Put a pillow under her lower abdomen, apply some lubricant on the glans, and use your hand to slide the penis up and down to find the vaginal opening. As long as it is lubricated properly, it will be easy to insert.
As long as you use lubricant, you should be fine, unless you have a very very short penis.