I wonder if your husband often says to you:
Why don’t you try anal sex? Why don’t we take a bath together and then have anal sex?
I had never thought about anal sex, and I didn’t know what anal sex felt like. I just thought it would be painful, so I never agreed to him. I think there are very few girls who want to try anal sex, right?
But I couldn’t resist my husband’s nagging and recently agreed to give it a try. I didn’t expect him to be so happy.
Is anal sex comfortable for the first time?
After trying it once, I would say that anal sex doesn’t hurt, but the foreign body sensation is very strong. However, it is also quite comfortable. I wonder if you feel good during anal sex?
Below are some things to note when a girl has anal sex for the first time, as well as how to clean and dilate the anus and get anal pleasure, etc.
What should you prepare for anal sex? There are many ways to have anal sex, and the following are all my personal experiences.
Anal sex tips 1: Prepare your cleaning supplies
The anus is where feces come out and must be cleaned.
I was in the bathroom with my legs spread open, and my husband took out an enema kit (a pump used to clean the anus and rectum), sucked water into the pump, inserted it into my anus, and squeezed out the water from the pump. This is the first step in how to have anal sex.
We use warm water for enema, which feels warm and will be more comfortable.
I thought the water would flow out immediately after being squeezed into my anus, but it didn’t. I had to squeeze it several times before it flowed out. What’s more, the water that flowed out was transparent, probably because I had just defecated in the morning and I have the habit of eating fruit every day.
However, the feeling during enema was very strange, because usually hard stuff comes out of the anus. But now it was like anal urination, and it was accompanied by a warm, slightly burning feeling. This was a feeling I had never experienced before.
Anal sex tips 2: dilate anus to relax sphincter
After cleaning your anus and rectum, you are ready to start anal sex.
For safety reasons, it is recommended that you place a towel under your buttocks before starting.
Apply lubricant to the butt plug first and then insert it into the anus.
Anal sex requires lubrication, which can be lubricant, anal stimulating cream, or anal relaxation spray. They will make your butthole relax.
When I first inserted the butt plug, it felt OK. There was no pain, but there was still a foreign body sensation.
In fact, both men and women have many nerve endings in their anal sphincters. So it is normal to feel some anal pleasure after inserting a butt plug. If you are used to using butt plugs, this step should be easy.
The purpose of this is to relax the anal sphincter first and adapt to the feeling of a foreign object.
Anal sex tips 3: Insert fingers before penis
Before he inserts his penis, you can let him insert index or middle finger into your anus to allow anal sphincter to further adapt to the feeling of being inserted by a foreign object.
My first anal sex was like this, and my anus had never been penetrated by a finger. My husband suddenly said he wanted to try fingering, and I said yes, but only one finger.
He slowly inserted his middle finger. And during the fingering, he asked me if it hurt gently.
I felt that fingers were smaller than the butt plug, so I asked him to try inserting two fingers.
We hadn’t started anal sex yet, but I was nervous and scared. Fortunately, I didn’t feel any pain, but when he inserted two fingers, I felt a stronger foreign body sensation.
Later, my husband slowly fingered my anus, and there was a position that was quite comfortable. Could this be the pleasure of anal sex? Additionally, he said that the flesh inside my anus was very slippery.
Anal sex tips 4: Add some lubrication before anal sex
Originally, I planned to let my husband finger my anus and then end it.
Then he said he wanted to put his penis inside because my anus was already dilated…
But the thickness of the two fingers and the penis are completely different. In order to fuck my asshole, he said they are about the same…
Because the anus and rectum do not secrete love fluid on their own, lubrication must be used to protect the inner wall of the rectum from injury.
Later he applied a lot of lubricant. Remember to apply it on his penis. Many people think that they should apply lubricant on the girl’s asshole when they have anal sex for the first time, which is wrong!
If girl feels painful when inserted, or is not lubricated enough, add more lubricant and never force it in!
Anal sex tips 5: First time anal sex! Please insert your penis slowly.
At this time, the girl can lie down, then put a pillow under her genitals to lift her butt up, so that it is easier to insert.
However, the first anal sex was a bit thrilling. I originally thought that he would insert penis into my anus slowly. After all, he was very gentle when fingering me just now.
However, he inserted the entire penis into me at once, and my anus was completely filled with his penis.
Fortunately, he applied a lot of lubricant and dilated my anus in advance, so he could insert it so smoothly. I was so surprised that I screamed out. I have a deep impression of that moment, not because of the anal orgasm, but because I was scared.
I suggest that when you have anal sex, please insert penis slowly. Anal sex requires experience and skills! Otherwise, it will be terrible if she gets hurt and bleeds…
Anal sex experience 6: Anal sex pleasure is hot
Many people want to know what anal sex feels like and does it hurt?
It doesn’t hurt much when the penis is first inserted!
But there was a foreign body sensation, and it was a very strong sensation. I felt very hot inside the anus, after all, his penis was hot.
During anal sex, the penis keeps rubbing against the anus and rectum, and the burning sensation becomes more intense, like a fire, and the foreign body sensation is extremely strong. It feels like you are pulling a stool, but you can’t pull it out, and it stays in the anus.
After my husband penetrated for a few minutes, I felt completely limp, as if I had no strength left in my body. However, my anus felt very comfortable, which was completely different from vaginal sex.
I don’t know how to describe the feeling of anal orgasm. Maybe it was because I was a little nervous and curious for the first time, and my husband said anal sex was very comfortable, and then he kept penetrating, so I had a lot of expectations in my heart, but I didn’t pay much attention to the physical feeling. I just felt that there was a big object moving around in my asshole.
If I have anal sex again in the future, I should be more experienced and more fully prepared before anal sex. Then maybe I can enjoy the physical pleasure of anal orgasm better?
Anal sex tips 7: Relax your mind and anal muscles to experience anal orgasm
Except for the initial shock when he penetrated his penis, I was quite relaxed throughout the whole process. Maybe because it was also my husband’s first time having anal sex, he was quite considerate and gentle.
Only when your mind is relaxed, your body will relax, your anus can expand better, and it will be easier to reach anal orgasm.
Also, there is a possibility of bleeding during anal sex, so everyone must be prepared and stay relaxed. Especially women, who are usually very nervous during anal sex.
I think anal sex requires patience and the husband needs to be gentle, so that you can enjoy the pleasure of anal orgasm.
Men can also ask girls how they feel during anal sex, such as “Can I insert a little more?” Communicating with her and caring about her is the correct anal sex.
This is the end of my sharing of anal sex experience. I hope everyone can enjoy the pleasure of sex! If you have never had anal sex before, you can try it according to my experience and your actual situation.
Anal Sex FAQ
1. Does anal sex hurt? What are the preparations before anal sex?
Anal sex certainly won’t be painful if you prepare well, relax, and do it the right way.
Before anal sex, you should use enough lubricant and relax your anal sphincter. At first, the penis should be inserted slowly until her body is fully adapted, so that you can experience the subsequent anal orgasm.
If you are still afraid, we would recommend that you do not have anal sex with him. You should first explore it yourself, which means inserting your fingers into your anus to get a feel for the anal experience.
2. Does liking anal sex mean being gay?
Don’t think so. Sexual orientation is a broad option. A person’s sexual orientation cannot be defined simply by a certain sexual behavior.
Liking or engaging in anal sex does not mean that he is gay. If he likes anal sex, it may be that he simply likes the sexual pleasure that the prostate brings to him. Many people think that only gay men have anal sex. People who hold this idea are discriminating against homosexuals and anal sex.
3. What does anal sex feel like?
Many people are curious about what anal sex feels like. I can tell you responsibly that this is an anal orgasm that your body has never experienced before. Don’t ask questions like “Is anal sex comfortable?” Only by trying it yourself can you know this wonderful anal orgasm pleasure.
4. What is anal sex?
Anal sex is any sexual activity in which an object is inserted into the anus, whether it is a finger, a toy, or a penis.
