Maybe it’s because of his physical condition. When my husband and I have sex, his performance is very unstable. Sometimes he can last for a long time, but sometimes he ejaculates after a few minutes, which makes our sex life very unharmonious… Is it true that only men can control the duration of sex? Are there any techniques that allow women to control the sex period?
Due to the differences in the physiological structure of men and women, it is easy to have a time difference in orgasm.
Either the man has reached orgasm, but the woman is still not satisfied; or the man is still sweating profusely, but the woman is already bored.
In order to reach orgasm at the same time, both parties need to have some skills and tacit understanding.
Generally speaking, sex is dominated by men and the duration is also determined by men, but this does not mean that women cannot control sex period. Today I will teach women some tips on how to control the speed of men’s orgasm in bed.
How To Delay Men’s Orgasm?
Changing the sex position is the easiest way to delay ejaculation. After the man has been thrusting for a while, you can change to a position where the woman takes the lead, such as the woman on top, so that the man has some time to rest and prepare for long-lasting sex.
And in the process of changing sex positions, the penis will briefly calm down for a dozen seconds, which also helps to reduce the urge to ejaculate.
A famous therapist once proposed a squeeze delay method, in which the man quickly pulls out his penis when he is about to orgasm, and then the woman presses the underside of the head or base of the penis with her hand until the ejaculation feeling disappears. Generally speaking, pressing for 5 to 10 seconds is enough.
How To Speed Up Men’s Orgasm?
You can give him greater sexual stimulation visually, such as changing your skin, and trying all kinds of sexy lingerie in all colors and styles. If he has a special fetish, such as black silk, bunny woman, or nurse, you can also dress in that direction, which will definitely make him unable to control himself and orgasm early.
There is another trick, which is that when he is thrusting, the vagina quietly uses force to “clamp” his penis. Simply put, it is to do anal exercises and contract the muscles of the private parts to tightly wrap his penis. Men who have experienced this all say it feels great.
To be honest, it is much easier to ask a guy to orgasm faster, but in most cases, women still want their partners to last longer during sex!
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