Why Do Women Like To Turn Off Lights When Making Love?

My husband loves keeping the lights on when we make love, but I find it so embarrassing. It makes it hard for me to fully let go and enjoy the moment…

According to a survey, 70% of women are used to having sex with the lights off. Only in the dark can they release themselves.

Most women are still very conservative and introverted due to the influence of traditional culture. Only in the dark can they feel private enough and feel safe when having sex.

Many women can only release their sexual instincts and become more bold and wild when they turn off the lights. They don’t need to pay attention to their image or manage their expressions. They can change sex positions whenever they want and even talk dirty.

In addition, compared with boys, women tend to be more emotional and more sensitive to tactile stimulation. When the lights are turned off and in the dark, the tactile sensation will be magnified, and women will be more likely to reach orgasm.

Another very important reason is that most women have body anxiety. Their bodies are clearly visible under the lights, and they are worried that their partners will dislike them. This anxiety often prevents women from fully devoting themselves to sex.

In contrast to girls, most boys like to have sex with the lights on.

It is well known that boys are visual animals. Seeing the other person’s figure, expression and some emotional reactions during sex will increase his sexual excitement.

Since the concepts of men and women are so different, should we turn on or off the lights when making love? I suggest turning on a dim night light. This can not only help girls relax, but also feast the eyes of men. The dim light can also increase the atmosphere, which is very suitable for couples to have a sweet sex.