In order to increase the diversity and interest of sex, couples or lovers should not focus all their attention on the friction of genitals, but should make full use of every part of their body to create a wonderful sex life. For example, the “69 position” is to use their mouths to satisfy sexual needs.
For Men
Lie down on your back with your legs slightly apart. Place a few pillows under your hips for comfort and better access. As soon as your sex partner’s labia meets your face, dive in and enjoy every moment.
For Women
Straddle your partner in a reverse position, with your mouth hovering above his penis and your vagina aligning to his mouth. Gently lower yourself onto him, allowing both of you to explore each other’s private parts simultaneously. Keep going until you both reach orgasm with this classic oral sex position.
Why 69 Sex Position is Popular?
The “69” oral sex position is simple and easy to learn, and it is also one of the most energy-saving ways of oral sex, so all couples who like oral sex use it frequently.
The biggest advantage of oral sex is that both parties can coordinate the stimulation degree between each other. If the man is about to ejaculate, he can ask the her to temporarily stop or slow down, while he continues to stimulate the her sensitive points with his mouth. When her sexual desire is high and is about to orgasm, she can continue to suck and stimulate the man’s penis for a synchronized orgasm.
When having oral sex, the intensity and depth should be gradually increased. At the beginning, they can kiss each other’s private parts. After slowly getting into the mood, the man can gently suck and lick the woman’s clitoris, or hold the clitoris in his mouth and draw circles on it with his tongue; the woman can focus on licking the penis in circles with her tongue, while holding the entire penis with both hands and stroking it up and down.
When performing oral sex in the “69” position, the woman should be on top, so that she can control the progress according to her own feelings. When she feels that she is still far from orgasm, she can stimulate the man’s penis slowly and ask him to stimulate the clitoris more (because women accumulate sexual pleasure more slowly than men).
When a woman feels that she is about to orgasm, she can use her hands and mouth to stimulate the penis appropriately, which will help both parties to orgasm at the same time. However, it doesn’t matter if the man orgasms and ejaculates early, because he can continue to stimulate her sensitive areas with his mouth until she orgasms.
During the “69” oral sex, the man’s hands are free. If he wants to share her weight, he can hold her buttocks or outer thighs with both hands, but only need to hold them lightly, so that she still has space to move her buttocks up and down, or front and back, which can help her to find the best stimulation point and speed; if he wants to further stimulate her sensitive points, he can also caress her breasts and nipples with both hands, let her feel more sexual stimulation, thereby increasing her sexual pleasure and reaching orgasm faster.
If you want to make the oral sex experience better, you can apply some fruity lubricant on your partner’s genitals to upgrade the taste and make your oral sex sweeter.
However, there is a disadvantage of the “69 position”. If the height difference between the man and the woman is too big, it is not convenient to use this oral sex position. But it doesn’t matter, I will release other oral sex positions later.
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